Quote: He's harboring a lot of anger and resentment toward me. It's like he totally hates me right now. I don't understand it, but I'm just letting it be.
That is completely typical. My husband had incredible anger too and my good friend is experiencing the same thing with her husband right now. Truly the best thing you can do is avoid him as much as possible --which it sounds like you're trying to do.
I'm glad to hear you're getting out and realizing there is life after this whole thing, and when you've been treated poorly for a long time, it's not so bad. Try to have some fun and even enjoy being alone for awhile (hey, sometimes it really is nice to have the whole bed, closet and bathroom to yourself! )
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
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