Liz, I haven't taken my own advice yet. But maybe if you go I will too....LOL>
People have suggested I go to an Alanon meeting. For the drug use of our xh's but also for the codependency factor. I have read some about the program and find that living with these people that program our heads into believing we are the cause of all of their problems wear on us.
I don't know. My T felt that even though it does not look real promising with H, that I need to heal and get support for the codependency issues. Just a thought.
Me: 41
WAH: 32
Married 11 months
5 kids between us
WAH left: 7/1/06
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WAH filed: 8/31/06