I just reread my post and I have to apologize for being a little harsh. Apparantly something in your post hit a nerve. It just makes me angry when someone acts inappropriately and then tries to justify it by making the person who was most loyal to them feel like it was their fault. If anything I said upset, I apologize. That was not my intention.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
