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Sherman333 wrote: So what's next for Lizemba?




Well, right now I'm still looking for work. My primary goal is to get financially independent and stable. During the conversation yesterday, my xH said to me that if I caused any more trouble he would stop paying child support. When I reminded him there was a court order, he said, "Well, I'll just quit my job, you know I can do that..." which is absolutely true. He's done it before to avoid child support garnishments for SS14 and he'd do it again. So, I'd really love to be able to take care of things completely on my own so that when he makes such threats, I don't have to worry about it so much.

In the short term, I'm just trying to take it day by day and keep my eyes open to the possibilities around me. I know I'll be okay and I know I'm surrounded by people who love me. I just need to keep moving forward and stop looking back.