Quote: I guess like so many have said...it will probably be the beginning of the end, so I'll just watch from the sidelines and enjoy the show when the time comes for it all to fall apart.
Liz, I can envisage a chorus of assent and much nodding of heads to that one from your assembled BB pals and supporters.
Sorry to hear you had to go through the above, but well done for having the courage to confront all those folks. It must have been hard for you - but look at the rewards: you now have clarity where there was a mist of uncertainty; you have knowledge, upon which you can make rational decisions; and you have confirmation that YOU have had the correct analysis, and have been doing the right thing, while others were going about their crummy business.
If I was your xH, and had even one lucid moment available to me, I'd suddenly be thinking, "Shlt, how is she EVER going to want me back after all this....???". I predict that is a question you/he will have to face, maybe sooner than you think - you should prepare your thoughts and feelings for that one over the near future.
Suggestion: Pour yourself a drink this evening Liz, and kick back, because you have done well today. Rent a silly movie, pile onto the sofa with your kids, and have a lot of laughs.
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Tangent: I've read back through your posts and one thing jumps out at me.... you have a fantastic writing style!! Beautiful prose, keen descriptive powers, and buckets of insight into the human condition. I don't know where your career is at the moment, but if you're looking for a new beginning you might seriously consider writing - some form of journalism, broadcasting, maybe, or perhaps a longer form. Anyhoo, just a thought.*
The world is your oyster, girl!!!
Peter
*idea: - How Good Was My GAL? Lizemba's Guide to Surviving the Big D, lol, my agent will invoice you for the 10% idea fee, Liz... see you on Oprah!!!!
