Quote: I am feeling so hurt that he's already moved in with her.
Oh goodness - it's not that she is special. Remember these MLC'ers are hooked on the endorphins they are getting from the OPs. And in his case, she's sort of bought him out as well. I'd say it's doomed - he's going to start getting tired of being supported by a woman and feeling like he can't pull his own weight eventually.
You're lucky in a way. My H's OW is now "friends" with him while trying to work on her other relationship, plus she has no job. Which means he gets to feel sorry for her, but not seeing her enough to wear out the relationship. All this means is that his getting over it will take longer. To be honest, it wouldn't bother me if she became homeless and moved into the apartment he is sharing with another guy. heh I think he would get tired of all that pretty quick. But no, she's staying with her boyfriend and not my H. Shucks.
So consider yourself lucky - he just might get over her quicker the way things are.
BluePoet
*M:50 WAH/PA:47 *M:29+ *Bomb:10/13/06 *Sep:10/17/06(me in house) *H wants D-11/30/06 *01/08/07- Me - NG, New R *2/26/07- filing of D *5/29/07- D final *08/25/07- Me - New R ends. - is ex-h living with OW? *D:32, S:24
All this means is that his getting over it will take longer. To be honest, it wouldn't bother me if she became homeless and moved into the apartment he is sharing with another guy. heh I think he would get tired of all that pretty quick. But no, she's staying with her boyfriend and not my H. Shucks.
