Ahh Liz ~ That is tough. I know how you feel on so many different aspects of what you just posted. As for you xh living with ow it may be a positive thing for you in the end. They will be around each other more and driving each other nuts with all their little nusiances. (Is that spelled correctly?) Anyways it will show him even more that the grass isn't always greener. In fact it may turn out the grass is dead over there

My h and I aren't even divorced nor have we filed and he has been living with his ow for about 8 months now. Pretty sick.

As for him calling you when he had s4 I totally agree with you. This is what he wanted he needs to be prepared to deal with s4 whe he is cranky or sick. That is part of parenting regardless and he can't fall back on you anymore. It is so tough when the kids say they want to come home. I have dealt with that with my boys and I went to get them. I don't think I should have.

{{{HUGS}}}


Christy
M: 31
H: 33
Married ~ 13 years
S12
S8
Bomb 10/05 supposedly ended A
2nd bomb 12/30/05
Separated 01/06
I filed 6/12/07 ~ new ow 3wks after moving out
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1094955&page=0#Post1094955