love never fails

[want2bmarried]

Liz as I was reading your post and listening to all the clear signals that WAH does not have his life together and sounds like he never did, I wondered why you would be with a guy like that? You clearly deserve someone so much better. Then I chuckled to myself. My WAH is the same way. He is debt up to his eyeballs, has a job that is going nowhere and he is a rx drug addict. And most of the time he is cruel and mean. Why do I want him? I actually got asked out on a date with someone who is successful (that doesn't matter too much), nice, sweet, and that would treat a lady great. No substance or anger issues. I told him I wasn't ready. My friends are about to shoot me. Here I am waiting in hopes of a man that can barely tie his shoes lately.

Does the OW have any money? Is she helping him? Guys that are users and manipulators will gravitate towards that kind of woman to help them. They may not want to, but surviving is more important that thier M at this point.

I haevn't seen your posts for awhile and hoped you were ok. I have been yoyoing again and its doesn't feel good. But I made the choice, and I have to own it.