I haven't heard from my xH since he left that last message. I guess that's par for the course. He feels I'm punishing him, so he'll punish me back by withdrawing more. It's all such a game.
I think the D was finalized today, but I don't know for sure. I am going to call the courthouse tomorrow and find out.
I found out that my landlady is the OW's very good (best?) friend. She has known her a long time. She said that OW is in love with my xH and that she left her H to be with him because he has qualities her H doesn't have. I guess I already sort of knew that to be true, but it goes against what my xH has been saying. He said that she left her H for reasons that had nothing to do with him and that romantic stuff came later.
I guess it just hurts to know that she's as much in love with my xH as he claims to be about her. And to know that she destroyed her M to be with my xH just makes me sick. So much damage done.
So many people say that it's "obvious" this R with the OW won't work out...but if they're both so into each other and were willing to break up families to be together, then maybe it is true love? I don't know. I'm having a hard time with it tonight. Knowing they have something special...and it's what I wanted from him...I guess I feel so rejected.
