Hi Liz!! I found you...you seem to be par for course. Just make sure you go easy on yourself...pamper and allow yourself the time necessary to grieve for the past relationship. I know what you mean about the "moments" Some times you feel so energized and excited, happy, you have a new opportunity in life! Then the next minute it is Blah, you miss everything. Just hang in there. You seem to be doing well by your post.
Now with you going 'dark' GOOD your emotions are prob too raw and if you talk to him; more than likely it would be easy for him to bait you. Plus he gets the chance to not call you and lean on you at this pivotal point in life. MEANING, i am sure he is having some emotion to this divorce and the only person he can show this emotion to is you. He may want to show it meanly or nicely, who knows. But he divorced you and right now is a good learning lesson for him to know he has to do this one on his own. And like i said, it lets you deal with things too and you wont feel inclined to fight with him or whatver may be the case.
Anyway...how is his relationship with your son? Does he hav set days he sees him and does he provide a fixed monthly amount in support? Just curious
Well dear hang in there and many hugs...xoxoxoxoxo
Silla
In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: It goes on....Robert Frost