Quote: lovinghim wrote: You are a beautiful woman (and I must say you do not look old enough to have children of that age )
Thanks!
Quote: lovinghim wrote: It sounds to me as if your xh is realizing the grass isn't as green as he thought over there!
I think it is possible that is what is happening, but it's hard to say. Mostly, when he's talking about how things suck, he's referring to either finances or his job. He has not given me any indication that things have changed with him and OW.
But yes, I do know that they will. It may take a few months, but it will happen. I know it.
Quote: running wrote: If I were in your boots I'd stay dark too.
Yea, it's the only way I can cope right now. I just can't handle talking to him. It's bad enough hearing his voice on voicemail messages.
Quote: running wrote: There were times during the divorce when I didn't want to talk with my husband either. I told him to please limit any communication with me to email or text messages, and also to let me know in advance when he was going to pick up and drop off kids so I could be away and avoid seeing him.
I haven't actually told my xH anything about limiting communication, but he must be getting the hint by now. I guess if he asks, I will tell him how I feel about it.
I wish I could avoid seeing him, but that would be hard at this point. S4 is too small to be left here, of course, and with the way my xH treated D13, I do not want to put her in charge of the transfer of S4 just because I can't handle seeing my xH. So, I have to endure that every other weekend. My strategy will be to have everything ready and meet him outside the apartment with S4 and all of his stuff, say goodbye to S4, and then walk back inside so that my xH doesn't have any real opportunity to talk to me. We'll see if it works!
I'm doing mostly okay. I have my moments. This morning was tough, because I woke up after having a really hot sexual dream about my xH. UUUUUUGGGGGH.
