Nice to see u over here. The finance thing is a bit of a dilemma for me – I don’t actually ‘do’ anything re organising his bank stuff, but I do have access to it if I need it and he pays some of my bills automatically from it, so in one sense I’d be cutting my nose off if I insist its closed. Of course, if he starts to overdraw, I’ll have no option.
If yesterday was bad, H phoned about six times – detached? We’re joined at the hip, today has been difficult. Had to work with H for about 2/3 hrs. He was very ‘ratty’, kept being interrupted by phone, he was shouting/arguing with others. I asked him nicely to stop shouting and he did apologise quite sincerely.
I was doing ok till I had to speak to someone on his cell. When I ended the call to give it back to him, ow’s picture popped up on screen. God did my heart lurch, thought I was going to be sick. She looked quite ordinary for a bloodsucking, home wrecker. Had a nasty smirk on her self satisfied face.