Waving~ I tried to post here the other day, but heard the board was locked up...so i will try again today.
I think you are right in wanting him to take control of his finances. I am so sorry you had to find those recent purchases, I can only imagine the pain and rejection you had to have felt. You should not at this point feel bad about your comment to him, because I would've said the same thing. I get diarrhea of the mouth when I am upset or hurt....
Take care and take care of youself!!!!
~dkd~
The fires of true love can never be quenched because the source of its flame is God himself.
M:36
H: 36
D12; Step-D9; S8
M: 4 years
Bomb: 4-2-06
Sitch: still living together; house up for sale