Wonder, have been reading some of your more recent posts.
Can’t argue with anything that u say there.
Went on to re read detachment article – I’m barely achieving any level of it most of the time. Why is it I can read the words, understand the content, and fail to execute?
I’m a fixer/rescuer I reckon. i am afraid of hurting my H more and myself.
Perhaps my (wrong) idea of detachment is a total emotional disconnection, which is perhaps what I feel I need, but can’t get due to H’s constant incursions + my fixit fixation?
Rereading my scales post. That just bust out of me this morning. And I think my H has gone nuts???
It seems I don’t know where I’ve been, or where I’m going.
I am sorry you did not reconcile, but pleased you will give me the benefit of your experience.
