I think what i've come here for is not only to share stuff with good people who really understand from the inside what this is like.
But also, for some honest and frank opinions. i know sometimes i look at other posts i can see that altho the person is trying to detach or whatever, they may actually be pursuing or something. What i'm trying to say is that often we are too close to our own sit. to really see whats going on.
At least, i beleive i am.
i don't know how to act with my H. i don't want to push him away - he gets very childish with me when i let his calls go. when i answer sweetly and make him feel i am happy, it just seems to validate his behaviour.
i really would appreciate any opinions (can't be told anything worse than H has said) to help me get a grip on this.
please ask any questions for clarification, i know my posts are all over the place.
