Was your W's loss of sex drive coincidal with Menopause, or was she disinterested, only gave obligatory sex prior to that?
she counts how long the whole nasty event takes and hopes it is over quickly
Ok this is how she feels about sex.
How do you feel about sex? Do you have religious beliefs, about sex? Are you reticent, or shy, or embarassed about your sex drive, or desires? Do you think of it as 'nasty'?
She has suggested that I go to the doctor to find a way to kill my sex drive
How does this make you feel? How did you respond to this?
She openly states that there is nothing I could possibly do to help her develop her interest level - in fact it only makes her angry if I try
How do you respond to her becoming angry?
For that matter, what else do you guys fight/disagree/argue about?
Lastly.
How important is having a sex life too you? Another way to ask this is, what things are more important to you, then a mutually satisfying -and sexual- relationship?
