Quote: We did a lot of things together with the children but nothing with just us two. Think that he was cake eating and I was allowing. We would ML from time to time. He basically cut me off outside of sex although I was too blind to see, I was hoping so much.
Are you talking about before or after your Summer 2004 separation?
Quote: He becomes someone that I do not know ... This goes on for about a year, it began in August 2005 and got progressively worse as outlined above.
Sorry...wasn't outlined above in a lot of detail...can you elaborate?
It sounds like you suspect an OW, but are uncertain...is this the case. Sorry...I will try and review your old posts on lunch.
Quote: We (kids too) are not in SBT which he agreed to go to as the kids have been acting out some.
I'm acronym challenged...what is SBT?
Quote: I was a WAW and that seems to have sent H on a path to find whatever it was that was "missing".
What do you mean you were a WAW...are you referring to a former marriage, was it you that initiated the Summer 2004 separation, or you left him once and returned...before Summer 2004. If the latter, can you tell us a little more?
I'll review at lunch and check to see if you've responded... In the mmeanntime...no asking him if he misses you or would like to come back...even if it is someday.
