The talk didn't go how I wanted it to...they never really do. But it went as I expected, I didn't blow up and it became more of a talk about what is best for the kids than an R talk. She is more adament than ever about filing for the D. I told her that I will not pay for it and I may contest it. Right now I'm not sure how I feel about it. I dont trust her any more than she trusts me...but I feel like we could build something if she'd try. I'm kinda thinking that marriage talk may have come up with OM...they have been living together for like six months and that's all we dated befor we got married, so nothing would surprise me now. If anything happens I'll let ya know, in the mean time I'm gonna do some things for me.
