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Just make sure you are prepared to get a "no", if you do ask, and don't have any expectations whatsoever.



I actually expect fully to get a no. I'm just not sure now is the right time to suggest it...considering my recent melt downs. I'm thinking it may be better to wait until things are a bit more positive. I really dont know what else to do though, I dont want to be limited to being a phone friend.

I asked her the other day why she is constantly asking me for help. When ever things get bad for her she comes to me for help...no matter what it is. She says it may be because I'm the only one who has helped her, ever. I said "doesn't that say something about how I feel about you?" Maybe ironic isn't the right word but I'm finding it ironic that the one person she doesn't think she can trust is the only person she goes to for help. Funny?


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