wow. I don't really know how to help you. I think that it might be okay to offer a 'get-together'.

Just make sure you are prepared to get a "no", if you do ask, and don't have any expectations whatsoever.

If your apprehensive about what you might talk about, if she does say yes, then choose something that you'd be doing stuff together, action stuff. Like, bowling maybe, or watching a movie (not so much action, but you don't have to talk much). That way there is less time for awkward moments.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."