oooooh. this is cool. What an opportunity this was. and timing that your dad was there too.

Yes, please do not profess your love. Just sit back and "watch". That is great advice you have given yourself!

Just remember to not expect anything and don't be dissappointed it doesn't go how you want it.

and Keep GALing for YOU and not for her!

Won't it be such a miracle you can share with others when/if your wife comes back to you and you have a wonderful new R with her?!?

Also, give your dad a pat on the back for saying what he did. He could have totally been rude or said something hateful for what she has done to you, but instead, he was compassionate. You must have an awesome dad.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."