Well a didn't call her but about an hour after I posted she called me. Her car broke down and she wasn't sure why. I explained to her what it sounded like to me and then let her go to my uncles parts store and charge them to my account. Told her we'll take care of the money after the holidays.
A funny thing happened when she went to get the parts. My dad happened to be there and they had about a 20 minute talk. He says that he told her that he and my mom still consider her part of the family and invited her and my step D to our christmas party on saturday. He says she had tears in her eyes and kinda just listened. THis is the first time he's seen her in months.
I know she's got alot of things on her mind right now and I think she's doing a bit of soul searching...usually I'd get in her face and declare my love for her. This time i'm gonna try something else and just sit back and do nothing.