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[S.T. _I Made It!]

I would say that your gut is right. When is the next time you have to talk or see her again? like next time picking up the kids? How often does she usually call you?

ya, don't call her, it's only been two days if that. Now if she calls you every day and then all the sudden doesn't call for a week, then it would probably be okay to give a call and say, haven't talked to ya in a while, did you guys have a good week? blah blah

And if she does call, don't act like you've been dying to talk to her, but be interested in what she's done of course and also be enthusiastic about what you've done since you talked last.

I feel like I'm loosing my ability to give good advice. I hope that is good advice!?!

A not so pleasant way to think about this would be...thinking as if you were not getting your W back, would you be calling her now? If you guys had both decided it was over and she's still living with OM. would you be calling? I'm thinking the answer would be no. I know that isn't a great thing to think of, but it popped into my head for some reason.

Just hold out a little longer. IMHO.