Thanks OT. I just can't be so tough!!! But you always nail it right on.

Stillhangin. I'm glad to hear your change of heart on the gift. It will make things much easier on you, and it will be easier to not expect something and wonder what this gift "did" for her. And like you said, you already gave a heartfelt gift...and you know what happened with that. it ended well, but still created a small mess in between.

Your cooking dvd sounds cool. Does she like to cook a certain dish? like pasta or something? Maybe you could get a basket with the pasta, sauce stuff, with the dvd. I don't know. that's if you wanted to do something more than the dvd. Of course you don't want to pick out Your fav dish, then it would be about you- as Oldtimer put it- but her fav dish.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."