I'm glad your feeling better too. I would be scared too. My H never was at that point that your W is at. H was either totally distant and very seldom became intimate (only in the bdroom) or ready to be with me. So, I don't know what it would feel like to be in your shoes.
Lets just say worse case scenerio, if you guys continue to be friends and she never comes back, well, at least you guys ARE friends because their are children involved. I know it still sucks, but your children will benefit so much from that, versus you and your wife not getting along at all and being totally distant.
But I still think things can work out for you guys, it's just gonna take some time.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
