I would like to agree with her that maybe you might be doing too much. Now if you really have this great feeling of giving, and you have such a great desire to do these things for her, NOT TO GET HER BACK, but because you really want to do them, then it's probably okay.
GrassHopper said that to me once I think.
You may need to cool things down a bit, just so it's not so overwhelming and it may feel like pressure to her.
At least you kept your cool and the convo ended on a good note.
I'm really sorry it didn't go how you wanted.
IMHO, a best friend IS your spouse, so hang in there.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
