Well today didn't go exactly how I had hopes it would go. W txt me while I was in school so I sent one back saying I would call her when I got done. The convo went okay basically talking about kids and christmas presents and what they wanted. Tried to get a couple ideas out of her for her. Talked for quite a bit, and hour+. Then things went south. I was trying to get an idea if she was going to be there to get the card I sent(I insured it so she'll have to sign for it) and I asked when the kid she's sitting would be picked up. She started to get all paranoid cause she thought maybe i sent flowers or something that would cause a problem for OM. She kept pushing and I finally said something to the effect "Fine we'll ruin this. I wanted to make sure you'd be there cause I sent you a gift card for $$$. I wanted to be sure you'd be there to sign for it." It went on to a huge R talk that I didn't want to have. Basically she thinks the card idea is the greatest thing I could ever do. But as far as the R goes she still feels like I throw alot of changes in her face. that I go over board a bit with things like flowers. I told her I'm just trying to do the things I didn't do before. It was quite a convo and I dont remember all the details but in the end she said she wants me to be like her best friend, that she likes not fighting and likes being able to talk. I told her I agree and that I wanted to be her best friend as well, I want to be the one she can say anything to. I want to be the one she comes to when she's in trouble. We joked a bit more and finally ended the convo on a good note, but some things were said that I don't think were in my best interest. Not sure how to go forward with this one, but at least it ended on a positive.


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