I hope you did the Santa thing, I thought that was really cute.

You don't have to lie. When she mentions it, just act like, wow that is great, I am really happy for you. If she flat out asks, you can always say in a coy voice. Well, the card said it was from Santa, so that must be who it's from. or something. I don't know. It probably isn't that big of a deal. She'll probably know it was from you anyways.

I'm glad that you have a relationship with God. I think it is truely important. If we don't believe there is life after this one, then what the heck are we doing? We might as well do whatever the heck we please, and care about only ourselves. But of course we know otherwise.

I understand what you mean about the little things. I really believe that someday your wife will turn around, as long as you continue to improve yourself and become the man you were meant to be.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."