I'm glad that you've made that decision that it's too early to date. I would love to see you do the more respectable thing and wait till your M is either fixed, or dissolved thru D. It just makes you, even more so, the better person.
Good job in not handing out help. You did stick out your neck big time for her. That car was a huge deal. She needs to live in her consequences.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."