When your dating OW, do you compare them to your W?
Do I compare other women to my W. In my head I do it constantly. the couple I have dated couldn't compare and that is why it didn't go any further than a date or two. After dating a couple women I realized that I wasn't over her, I tried to convince myself that I was but it didn't work. That is when I recommitted myself to dbing. I think it kinda took seeing what was on the other side of the fence to be able to appreciate what I've lost and what I'm fighting to get back.
Today we talked a little bit when we met (at our old house) to give her the support money. She was going on about how money is tight for them now and she couldn't even afford a tree for christmas. I wanted to offer her help but I didn't. Maybe it's time she fended for herself. After all I did just stick my neck way out by buying her a car.
