Sounds like you are doing a good job. I still don't think it was really you being a meanie getting her car repoed. I mean, she had already moved out right? That was just one of the consequences she needed to face because of the choices she made. But you writing up a "lein" (definitely do that) is great.
Do continue the compliments, but just make sure there is reason to do it. If you really think she looks good, then tell her, or maybe instead of saying, you look good, or wow, you look pretty tonight, you could say, that blouse looks really good on you, or if she changed her hairstyle you could mention that. We just want her to believe what your saying and that your not just saying these things to get her back. Which, in a way your are, but you do plan to continue complimenting her if you guys get back to gether, so it's really a life changing thing for you.
Anyways, sounds all good to me. You just hang in there!
Believe me, I would love my husband to shower me with compliments. i get one about 3 times a year. oh well. Wish it had been me leaving and him begging to get me back, but had it happened that way, he wouldn't have begged for me back, so I guess it all works out in the end.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
