Put your S first SH. And running and Cat gave you good information. Do not help out financially. It is painful I know, but you have to take care of you and your S....not her.
M-35 going on 15 D-8 S- 3 yrs ex-CL(w)- 30
D over one year
I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be. Douglas Adams "Just Be"