My H has never wanted to "talk" at all ever in this past 10 months of replay...normal? Just spew that he tried i never listened.....he was always the one trying and tons of other things that were my fault...but not once has he wanted to put anything onto talking this out.....will he maybe when he has the awakening?...the depression? I do not understand how someone can walk away from 25 yrs like they never existed. he turned things that he specially got for me into bad things that were my fault. Now that he has served me papers, hes acting just like before friendly txts...guilt appeasement? Came out for coffee? How am i supposed to act? There have been sometimes when he has said some incredulous things where i have blown up at him, I will admitt...but geesh i am only human.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
