well with a divorce in the works I kinda have to leave him alone and detach, plus he living with and is besotted with OW.....what else can i do?


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest