I guess it is hard because H is alll over town with OW, never has been secret......parks his truck out front at her apt over nite and is emotionless to me...like he wished i would just disappear.....not divorce cos that would cost $$...but just disappear and take care of myself, behaves in town like I dont exist...just OW...yet he is still MARRIED to me. Spews divorce , bad marriage to everyone as his validation...but doesnt file


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest