ooooohhhh, now I get it.....

Okay...but you have to eat right? Please tell me you don't weigh 88 pounds...

Sweets, you gotta get a grip...you must eat. You will become ill if you don't eat. That would not be good for you or your animals. Your H is being a selfish, mean man. Ok, we've surmised that. Nothing you can do about that sweets.

All you can do is pull yourself up by the bootstraps and get busy living. Whether your H comes back or stays with the OW or a goes through a barrage of OW, doesn't matter...what matters is YOU. What is it that YOU want? Have you thought about that? Trust me, hon, I was exactly where you are...and now, after months, I am feeling okay. I like Vali and I am thinking about what Vali wants and needs. One day you will get there too...

So, what thing would make PWS feel a tad better???? I'm not talking a weekend in Bermuda (wait, maybe I am....)...just a little thing? Reading a book, doing your toenails...having them done? What is that...something just for YOU. No one else. Think about it and let me know...

Hugs,
Vali



Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller