ow thread locked........MLC Collateral damage

[a new 2moro]

How can he see the issue if I allow him to walk all over me.......9 months of hugs and kiss have gotten nowhere......except he has done more and more and more with her and less with me. When he left he said talk to you sometime and I txt him he can talk to me anytime. He txt back hours later that he felt good about that and he I would feel that way for life.....I txt back I didnt know ....but for now .if he needed to talk about his turmoil I would be there. This is all after I am told there is no $$ for me to have groceries this week.....he brought dog and cat food but I cant eat! ?????