h brought my meds yesterday.....asked for hug....i said no not until you get rid of the third person in our marriage....I got the seven heads look and he drove away. I cant take his sloppy seconds any more when she has everything else! He is so deep in replay. Another year or two????


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest