Hon,I'm not following something. Why do you HAVE to file before Christmas? You don't have to do anything you don't want to! Do not let him force you into a single thing. I know that it seems like he's happy in his new life; I once believed that, too. In fact it was this time last year that I thought the very same thing. H was trying to make it work. It wasn't as happy as I thought. Don't believe he's got the life of Riley. He doesn't and he knows it. Hugs!
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
