ow thread locked........MLC Collateral damage

[a new 2moro]

Thats the trouble I get so tongue tied when I go and the panic attack takes over it is hard to remember anything

I was alone for Thanksgiving....H never mentioned it or what he did.....prb with child whore. It hurt alot. He was out Fri to bring me my meds.....tried to meet him at door and send him on his way.....but he came in anyways. Telling me I have to get a job , he cant pay bills by himself.....i told him to get rid of 3rd person in the marriage and I would be glad to help our situation. He kept deflecting it and i kept repeating it. He said...you are telling me you wont work and give me money.....i said that is not what i said.....get rid of 3rd person in our marriage and i will get a job and help......he doesnt get it. No surprise huh?