we had a major debt prob before the MLC and the mlc is making it worse.....he is spending what we dont have on OW and not paying bills. He wants me to get a job and help with bills...sounds like I would be funding his life with OW. it is a huge mess.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest