The lawyer said it would do everything a divorce would do and would cost as much and didnt recommend it except in religious cases......so I aheve the lawyer and my uncle saying D is the only way to go


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest