Correct me if I am wrong, but I am getting this feeling that you think nobody understands your pain, that somehow all of the advice here is easier said then done, and you are somehow different.

It doesn't matter if you have been married 5, 10 or 20 years the pain is still the same.

Be thankful that you don't have young children to take care of and that you do have the luxury to wallow in your misery.

Everyone here knows that pain, we are all still dealing with it in different ways.

I want you to write me a letter, you get one chance at this.

I want you to post to me exactly what you want to say to your Husband right now.

I don't care how many F words you use, just get it out.

Once you have done that, we will discuss the next step.




There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.