Sorry you're having a tough day. I don't know why they can't see they are ruining themselves financially and stop spending money like a teenager. Mine keeps complaining about wanting a new car. I'm thinking sell the motorcycle you bought with MY inheritance and then lets talk about needing another car. They are clueless!
Hope your friends surgery goes well. I really hope your day improves. I'll say a prayer for you this morning when I have my time.
Hugs, Sun
"Tell me what you plan to do with your one wild and precious life." Mary Oliver