((((Sue)))). Oh you are going through a tough spell over your house, but it sounds like you have a good L looking after your interests. I'm so pride of you getting tough with H on your home, which you deserve so much.
I really agree with brue, I always think your H sounds completely uninterested in D. I doubt he knows what he does want (sigh), but he really seems far away from wanting a D. So if you can get the house thing settled without a D, that is even more flexibility for you. A silver lining?
I know about the lonely thing. The holidays are hard for all, but I think those of us that really, really like them it may strike the hardest.
Hope it is not so cold up there that you can't get outdoors a little--that really helps me, although I don't know about if I was freezing!!!
Much love and hang in there Sue, I think you are well protected right now!
