You are so right! I am enjoying the insanity for now!
XH called me yesterday right smack in the middle of the day. I haven't spoken to him without the kids around in about a year. He wanted to ask me about the kids xmas?? Two weeks ahead..That is just unheard of..HE knew what they wanted and, in fact, had already bought them stuff.
We did have a pleasant conversation and that was that.
Today I text messaged him about more xmas stuff thinking he may have duped what I wanted to get kids..he called me right back..no text.
We talked. I told him how happy I was that he has been seeing the kids so much. I told him that as far as I was concerned, the day I signed the divorce papers all of our the rest of our crap flew out the window. I said clean slate, okay? He could not believe I said that. EMotional..happy..he was all over the place.
I love that we can get along..I love that he wants to see the kids..However, I have been down that road way too many times in the past two years to see if it will last.
I did tell him I thought he was acting like the "old H" again..I told him I could cry..He said, okay..go ahead..ha ha.
Anyway, am I biting the bait? Not really..just riding the rollercoaster anticipating some more twists and turns..but, for now, I will enjoy the view.
Nighty night all..
oh, btw..Grad school class coming to an end. Start student teaching in a few weeks..Yee Haa..!! Then I will be all done!!!
