I understand why you are pissed, but here's something I tell myself.... if he's been able to push a button, and I get mad, he's won.
With that said, I don't know why they have to continue to play their games, except I do have a few ideas.... They are searching for control, by pushing buttons, getting a reaction, they feel they have found some control.
Secondly, they are miserable, they want to make everyone else miserable too, therefore, they feel there is nothing wrong with them, it's everyone else who has a problem.
Third, They are testing to see if we still care. Again, if they get a reaction, good or bad, we must care, we haven't changed, we haven't moved on.... they know they can reach us by doing something stupid to get our ire's up.
They are completely out of their minds. Need I say more.
I don't know really, although I know I've been divorced for nearly 2.5 years, the xh is remarried, has a new life, a good job, everything going for him.... and he still takes the time to mess with me... but ONLY if I let him. <~ You see, this is where we take back control.... They get to us, ONLY if we let them.
If you come up with a few more ideas, let me know, I'd love to hear them.
Just blow it off, he doesn't have a clue... let him have fun with the Rat.... he doesn't have what it takes to get under your skin... he's defective, you are not.
Let it go, and eventually he might just find another target, well, that's what I'm hoping for.
Take care of you, God Bless
Love,
Laughing
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........
