Last Thursday XH leaves me a ten minute long message over his concern for the kids and asking me for help with getting them to go on a trip with him..then he suggest I GO WITH NEW GUY.
SICK..
but he was kiss a## nice it was creepy on the message..
Okay..
Today he emails me a bullet item list telling me what I am not doing right with the kids..
starting each sentence with "it's not okay that you blah blah blah..
It was OUTRAGEOUS..
I was going to take my D out of school an hour early today to get her haircut..Mind you the ONLY day of school she has missed was due to her FATHER taking her out.
Then, XH has them last night and decides to let THEM SLEEP LATE..so..my S calls me at 9 to say they weren't in school yet and that dad was taking them in late. Well, by the time they got to school it would have been almost 11 and I thought at that point, what's the point? D had lunch and recess then an hour of school and I take her out again?? Give me a break.
So, I tell my S to have daddy do what he wanted..but I said it was okay if they just didn't go in..It really wasn't okay but it wasn't like XH asked permission to let them sleep in. It was wrong he did that.
So, he emails me saying how it was wrong I HAD THEM FAKE NOT GOING TO SCHOOl.
with a few other things that were so outrageous I couldn't believe it. Saying to me be careful since the kids will be become whatever I decide and I was a spendthrift and a liar, etc.
MY BLOOD IS BOILING..I will gladly post the email but I am too tired to go cut and paste...how pathetic is that?
He verbally abuses his girlfriend in front of my kids
Lies
Cheats
Drinks
Bullies
Intimidates
Lies again
And he had the NERVE to judge me?
I was going to go on and on and do a retaliatory email but I did the 24 hour rule..When I get pissed at him I MAKE MYSELF wait 24 hours before responding..
Well..I almost made it..but I didn't send him the original email so I guess I a being good..so in a way I doing the 24 hour thing.
I emailed him one sentence..I wanted to do the EXACT OPPOSITE of what he thought I would do..which would be rant and rave and get in a fight..
I just emailed him saying.."looks like someone didn't take his happy pill today..oh well.."
Why can't he just leave me alone?
What does he want?
I have no idea..
Oh, btw..so far I have received all A's in my grad school class so I guess all my anxiety has found a good home!
A- on my HUMOGO research paper..and I was actually pissed I didn't get an A..I think I have a problem..
I am sooo mad at the jerk..He just got back from Florida and he is already back to his assanine ways. I thought he would at least be happy for a few days.
Maybe he picks on me on Thursdays since I stay at New GUys on Weds when he has the kids..
It is so predictable.
Oh, did I tell you he is yet ANOTHER fight with the Rat? She went with him on the trip and they always fight when they get back. He has the kids this weekend so things should be interesting ..poor kids.
Oh, another thing..Son was at his dad's last night and text messaged new guy..it was trivial but I thought it was pretty funny that he did that since it's very unusual for S to text New Guy..Guess NEw Guy has really made a good impression which makes me happy..Although I am playing supercool with S about it..
okay..going to get my Voodoo doll out now..Funny how it looks so much like the Alien..hmmm..
