Hi Angelica The kids thought it was GREAT! That was the hard part. Both kids came home and thought, wow, wouldn't it be great if the Rat and mommy were friends and Dad and New Guy could go boogie boarding together. That is why I was so pissed last night. I looked like the bad guy to these kids.
Then I thought, wow, this could be my opportunity to get her back for all the crap she pulled. Have XH and the Rat pay for our trip and I could booby trap her room and stuff. You know, cellophane the toilet seat, put rubber bands around the sink faucet to squirt her in the face, you know stuff like that..ha ha.
Or, I could just sit on the beach with New Guy and watch them fight.. Sick Sick satisfaction but more entertaining than any talk show I watch. that's for sure!
I have been very good about OW to the point where the kids think I like her. That is the problem. I have accepted it but still would like to use her face to scrub the lizards tank.
As for XH, he is a sick ticket. He will try ANYTHING to get a reaction from me. If it means leaving a long message about NOTHING, then telling me we should all go on vacation together and then, the clincher, telling me NOT TO CALL HIM BACK.
He is out of his freakin mind.
Oh, did I tell you that he had the kids overnight on Wednesday night so I slept at New Guys? So, when the kids popped in the house to get stuff before school on Thursday morning I wasn't here. Kids were unphazed thinking I went to the gym or something. XH new damn well where I was. He called the home phone ten minutes after dropping the kids off.
Also, took my D to the city with the Rat to see the Grinch. D came home with a Hard Rock Cafe shirt for me that DADDY picked out. He knows I collect them.
Another thing, two weeks ago he text messaged me "good night" when he had the kids.. He knew I was with New Guy.
Now all this may not sound like a big deal but I hadn't spoken a WORD to him since August 13th. The day I got a restraining order on him for pulling a very stupid stunt. (past posts)
It's the holiday season. He will be sniffing around. But what pisses me off is when he acts all innocent and suggests these stupid family gatherings and I nix them. He cheated on me with this Rodent . Why the hell would I want to eat dinner at a restaurant with her while she chews on chicken bones and licks her fingers?
Okay, I have to calm down. I was pissed last night. I had a long talk with my S12..He hates the Rat but thought it was her trying to be nice. I had to tell my S that I accepted that dad and I were divorcec, but I would not spend time with a woman like that.
I didn't respond to XH's message. Nor will I. Geez, two years ago I would have jumped at any opportunity to respond. Now I am like, he is still out of his freakin mind and it feel SOO good not to care anymore. As long as he is paying me the dough to stay in the house while I finish my master's, I am fine.
