Have to hop on over to your thread and take a look. Sorry to see you are in this MLC boat but you will make it.Trust me. If I can do this and still stay sane, ANYONE can..Geez, when I read my past posts from 2005 I cringe...but we all learn from our mistakes and move on. Good luck with your sitch and I am so glad that I could give you a lift in your spirits..
Celestial, my buddy.. Thanks so much for the post. I beamed ear to ear when I saw that you posted. I did survive the big D. Actually, I more than survived it. Never thought I could say that and not feel like I was going to throw up..:) How are u?? Need to catch up and see what's new with you!
Trying..wow..so glad I could give you a boast, as well...Makes me SO HAPPY that my thread is looked upon as positive. When I typed it today, I just wanted to give an update so everyone knew I was okay. So, I appreciate your compliments! I really an fine..More than fine. And,like I said to MMan, if u go back and read some of my posts, it's AMAZING, well, at least for me, to see how much my attitude changed. Really is. Wasn't like a bolt of lightening struck me or anything..it was a process but each day I got stronger. Minute by minute I survived in the beginning, then hour by hour, day by day, etc. Eventually, it was two years later and I didn't have any feelings left for him. Was so weird. If he were to come to my doorstep with a bow wrapped around him, I would post a sticker on his forehead and write "return to sender".I am not kidding!
I am not vengeful by any means. I am just done being treated like crap. I am not mad at him but refuse to be his emotional punching bag. I have a life to live and he is not part of it anymore..Not until he gets his act togehter.
He isn't a bad guy. I still love him and he will always be welcome in my home. (notice how I say "my") As a friend, that's it.
I hope that one day we can sit and have a beer and get over all this stuff. The sooner the better in my book. I hate all this silence because it keeps the divorce so fresh.TIme to turn the page..Get the counseling we need and go forward..(separately, of course)
So, Trying, keep your chin up..So many possibilities came along once I opened my eyes up to them and took them off my Ex. I was just wasting time trying to fix an R that wasn't to be fixed. Time for form a new R, that's all. The old one died a long, long time ago.
Off to go to bed, now.
Hang in there everyone..It does get better..I promise!
